Perpetual Child: Adult Adoptee
Contributor, Julie Stromberg
Perpetual Child: Adult Adoptee
Anthology, Dismantling the Stereotype
JULIE STROMBERG
Interviewed by:
Amanda Transue-Woolston (Co-editor & Contributor)
Mei-Mei Akwai Ellerman (AN-YA Project Co-founder & Contributor)
Diane René Christian (An-Ya Project Co-founder & Publisher)
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Diane: Tell us about your piece published in Perpetual Child: Adult Adoptee
Anthology.
Julie: In considering the societal notion that adoptees remain “adopted
children” long after our childhoods’ have ended, I thought back to my own
childhood. I considered the moments that represented an adoptee coming of age
and gaining a fuller, more adult understanding of adoption practices. As an
adoptee who was born and adopted in the United States, my thoughts landed on
the first time I saw my amended birth certificate and realized that information
I needed to feel whole and secure in myself was purposefully being withheld
from me.
Diane: How did you approach writing your piece included inside the
Anthology?
Julie: The process was interesting for me. I am a journalist and copywriter
by profession so my writing usually involves stories about other people or
promotion of my employer. Digging a little deeper into my own narrative and
bringing something specific to life was a rewarding process.
Mei-Mei: Did reading the pieces by other contributors bring up any unexpected
feelings, or issues of which you were unaware? If so, would you like to share a
few examples?
Julie: Oh, wow. I learned from every contributor just as I do from any
adoptee who is not me! While we all share some aspects of our narrative, there
is so much variability. A domestic infant adoptee such as me is going to have a
different experience from an international, transracial adoptee. I really
appreciated what Angela and Lucy wrote, for instance, because their narratives
differ from mine. Matthew also has a
base of experience that is quite different from mine as well. I welcome all
adoptee expression and enjoy learning from my peers.
Mei-Mei: In what way did your relationship to your piece change [if at all],
when reading it in the context of a collective work versus when you originally
wrote it as a standalone piece?
Julie: As a standalone piece, my essay reflects the experience of an adoptee
who was adopted through domestic United States infant adoption. While many
share my experience, mine is not the only type of adoption narrative. I feel so
proud to have my essay included within a collection of diverse adoptee
experiences and narratives. Perhaps my words are all the more powerful as part
of the collective whole.
Amanda: Discuss a person, place, or event in your life that helped you
discover your talent for writing/poetry, or that nurtured your talent.
Julie: On my personal website, I list my influences as Kermit the Frog, my sixth grade language arts teacher, The New York Times and People magazine. All four directly influenced my decision to major in journalism and pursue a career that involved communicating in writing. My college professors and professional editors nurtured my skills and helped me grow as a writer.
Diane: Do you have a particular time of day which you prefer to
write/create?
Julie: I am currently employed as a marketing copywriter for a large
investment firm. So I write and edit all day long. Of course, 401(k) plans and
mutual funds can only offer so much inspiration. Much of my personal writing is
done in the evenings. Although, I prefer to write during the morning hours when
my brain is rested and fired up.
Amanda: Are there any adoptees who
inspire you creatively? Feel free to
answer in general terms of being inspired by the adoptee community if you do
not wish to name anyone specifically.
Julie: I feel so fortunate to be a part of a large, talented and extremely
creative adoptee community. Creative expression seems to be a healthy part of
processing our experiences. I’m inspired by so many! I have adoptee friends who
are painters, photographers, writers, and performers. And all of them have
sought creative inspiration from their experiences as adopted persons. I’m in
awe of this community every day.
Diane: Do you have a favorite “writing space”?
Julie: I was working as a freelance newspaper reporter when we moved to our
current home. Much of my work was accomplished at the house. We closed in the
formal living room area and made it a home office. My husband and I have desks
that are pushed together. There are French doors with glass windows so I can
see my kids in the adjacent family room. It’s a blissful space.
Mei-Mei: Do you need complete quiet, a "room of your own," when you
write or can you write under any circumstances? Does your writing simply flow
from your pen, finger tips, or do you actually hear what you are writing, or
see it as it takes shape?
Julie: At my office, we work in open cubicles. And I have had to write
newspaper stories while attending the events I was covering. As long as I have
music and ear buds to create an “internal office” with music, I can write anywhere.
Although, I prefer my home office.
Amanda: Is feedback from other
adoptees, other adoption community members, colleagues, or friends/loved ones a
part of your creative process? If so,
how do you include others in the creation of your pieces?
Julie: Oh, I liked to be edited. I’ve been doing this long enough that I
have come to appreciate how the perspective of another person can be invaluable.
I stink at editing my own writing. The brain sees what it wanted to put there. When
colleagues, friends and family offer their insight and feedback, my writing is
better.
Mei-Mei: Given the choice to make three major changes in your life up to now,
what would they be?
Julie: In 2008, I was accepted into graduate school for Library Science. Just
before I was due to start the program, I was offered an on-site, three-month
contract writing job and decided to put school on hold. That three-month
contract assignment turned into the permanent job I have now. I would still
like to get that graduate degree. As for the other two, I’m not sure. Suddenly
become independently wealthy and start a foundation to support adoptee rights
efforts around world maybe?
Amanda: Do you feel that your writing is in any way a legacy to your
posterity or a tribute to your ancestors—or both? If so, in what ways do you feel your
ancestors/descendants appear within or inspire your writing?
Julie: I am fortunate to have been in reunion with my original families
since 1998. So I know much about where my inherent talents and interests
originated. My paternal natural grandmother was the editor of her high school
paper. My natural dad managed radio and television stations for the United
States Army. My paternal natural aunt works in a library. My maternal natural
brother makes films and majored in communications like me. My son wants to be a
writer and artist. I’m just doing what I was wired up to do. And I really like
knowing that my interests and talents are not random.
Diane: What projects are you currently working on?
Julie: My adoption blog keeps me busy. And I am working on essays to submit
for consideration in upcoming adoptee literary projects. I will be
participating in a book reading event in June 2014.
Diane: Have you read any great books recently?
Julie: Oh, I just read Hamlet again. Okay, fine. That’s so not true. I am
actually reading the Divergent trilogy by Veronica Roth right now. I’m a huge
fan of the Hunger Games books by Suzanne Collins and the Divergent series has a
similar vibe. I am completely roped into the trend of dystopian, young adult
fiction.
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Our
thanks to Julie for her contribution to the Anthology!
Visit Julie
Stromberg at her website www.juliestromberg.net
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